Even with so much experience, life still has it’s way

I believe that if you don’t let out all the stupid things you hold in high esteem in your heart. You won’t really know what you really want and what’s worth preserving. You will keep confusing the people around you and end up making life miserable for yourself. Now is the time to figure yourself for yourself.

Dr Gary Chapman in his book FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES explained

I made a decision that when it comes to doing something and for a second I stop to think that I’m doing it so that someone will think I’m this or that; or so that someone will not think I’m this or that: I would quit right there and then.

Allow yourself to make mistakes. Allow yourself to do stupid

A common people-pleasing question that pops up whenever you are about to do something that you are not popularly known for.